INVITED BY A NET FRIEND

agree ^.^

been there
lol I can't stop laughing :D

yup i was thinking of inviting them all to the police station hahaha :)

coz i cannot control them anymore...they might hurt and kill each other hahaha :)

if a girl invites me, why not...i'll grab that opportunity...

if a man invites me.. i'll accept & go w/ my immediate and extended family...lol...if he doesn't agree w/ that...oh well he's thinking something else...SEB i guess...then i will not go...danger ahead...hehehehe

hmm...i think i must go with you then :)

going where? w/ me & my girl friend...or w/ me & my boy friend w/o my extended family to have SEB....lol....going threesome...why not...lol

wherever... :))

might be if she is pretty...i am man nothing gonna loose if free travel. and if my schedule is free. i have work too.

i remember our conversation a while ago about buying ..... hahahaha OK. Good luck! :P

someone sent me an invitation to a birthday party of his daughter. i just met this guy in net he is devorce. but i already met him in person in LA in one coffee shop, when i arrive in the venue no one there but me. i was surprised and scared. he is there waiting half naked. i runaway from there and never look back.

i thought he is good guy. i was wrong.

omg, that's terrible.
i also read a news about a mom looking for her daughter who went to meet a net friend and never came back..

good question, if I have the money and I like the country I would go for a short period of time given that they are my real friends.

i wouldn't..

i don't like having things paid for me.. if i go, i pay my own way :)

ummm...ok ...nice :)
so the possibility that you'll OK to the visit is still there...... ?.
i mean ..let's take out the expenses issue now

depends on the other person.. im a good judge of personality, and if someone is lying to me.. if i really did trust them then yes, i'd go, if not.. no thanks :)

nice :) .......did anyone ever offered for real ?

nope lol no one has ever offered for real.. but oh well, i plan to do a lot of traveling someday, on my own dime :)

I think it is really great to travel around the world :))

yayy i'm dreaming .....

hehe yea, me too, i will probably never have the money to do the traveling i'd like to do :P

I think I'd probably just choose few places i can realistically afford...plan and save for the dream holiday :))

i would say send to me this money instead!
i can stay with u online 24 hour!

hahahahahaha nice suggestion
but he/she seems not contented with the daily chats and exchange of cute graphics, and really really wanna see u..........

really i have experience in that kind but it's me who invited!
that was bad coz when u get close with someone u like then go away totally from ur sight this increase the missing feeling and it hurts more than frist!

and what happened to your invitation? did she accepted it?

ya sure she couldn't resist the temptation :D
since that i couldn't even be online more time as before coz iam too busy and we rarely talk and this tearing me apart and she feel so bad!

oh, did this happen just recently ?

wht difference dos it make!
anyway it happened from about 8 months!
still the same situation iam still busy and she can't come and she think i don't like her anymore coz i don't talk to her like i use!

i hope things will be better for you both in the coming days :)

how about she (or other net friend) invite you in their home country?

I have know a few people here in the US to do that, especially for Asian women. Wealthy business men, and oh yeah, if he is American i guarantee he is married and wont be telling his wife about it. Depends on the country of course, if he is from a civilized country and you know what his expectations (sex) are, do it.

What about you...are you going to invite a net friend you met only for six months? and the other way around ...are you gonna accept an invitation from her?

No Vicky I would not invite a net friend on a vacation, but I am not wealthy. If I were wealthy I would...probably invite them on a cruise and give them their own bedroom for the vacation so they dont feel obligated or nervous if we didnt click. As for me, I would respectfully decline and invite them to come stay with me for a week at my home instead.

ohh how kind of you...but do you guys don't feel any alarm or sense of danger or risk for your life (lol i said at all!) in this kind of invitations?

I absolutely feel some risk. The country the person lives in is paramount to the decision. I would never meet someone in a 3rd world country. If they want to take you on a vacation to London, England, what could really happen? The paperwork trail is there so they will not get away with it. However if they asked me to on vacation to brazil or something i would laugh at them. Hence my suggestion, invite them to your home country instead. That way they are the one taking the risk.

for women meeting a guy from a 3rd world country or a rich country poses the same amount of risk .....
inviting net people you trust in your home country or your home s risky too :))

haha, no vacation for you!

Of course, I can go on holiday trip but not under this condition :)
I'll spend for it and go only on places which I will feel safe

hell no. i need to read...

but i really really like to go to sain't martin island in our country. the way green house effect is going on, i might miss it for the rest of my life!

lol it's different when your travelling on your own. In this situation you met a girl six months ago and now shes inviting you to an all expense paid holiday in their country. Are you going to accept it?

only for one day? no way! i need at least 48 hours to settle any new place. when i go somewhere, i make sure that i have a good time. so it will take me for at least 15 to 20 days for me if i go somewhere beyond my country & it's also because i might never be there again. thats why i said this...

Aren't you afraid for your life? I mean you will go to a place you may have never really seen in your life yet.....

i don't consider myself that much important. ppl will kick my ass back to my country in no time. lol

of course not! there are different types of risk u can get urself into... one is getting tied to a net friend in a relationship you don't want, get scammed or get pranked ...who knows
hehe me scaring you again :D

i might. ya ur right. but trust me, it would so much tempting that i might end up being there. lol. i'll make sure that i have enough money by myself & the condition will be, i'll take money only if i want :)

hahaha i think i cannot discourage you :P
you are playing with me lol

do u wanna hear a story from my life?

of course :)

it was 4 yrs back. jan 2006. i didn't have too many friends. i guess i am not good in friendship. i don't have much places to visit & get outta medical books. so i made myself to visit cox's bazar alone. i don't wanna talk about that great place beside it's a place near bay of bengal. google it if u want.

on the way i got out from buss near cox's bazar & took a bus to tecnaf. it was not planned. this is the end portion of bangladesh territory near myanmar . there is a river which called naf that divides these two country & so the name was tecnaf. even naf is divided into half.

i reached there at 1300. got into a hotel, got freshed. i was so much impatient to see the bay. i took a rickshaw, a transporting system. a type of tri-cycle. the driver was a 19 yrs boy. i started being friend with him. he was so curious to know me as i was alone in such a place. took a beer belongs to myanmar & illegal. but it was available to native ppl like him. i started travelling & put the beer into another bottle to avoid police. :P

we roamed some places. i saw there was BDR (officials who guard border) build some special building made up of bamboo rear the middle way of naf river. more than 15 fishermen were there catching fish by a huge net. there was 4 to 5 BDR there. first i was kinda uninvited to that building but as i was alone with a 19 yrs kid, they allowed me to sit on the bridge that connect the building to the main street. it was amazing. i'm just in between 2 countries, above a river & i can see the shore where the river is connected to the bay with the clear sky. it was a dream come true.

then after passing some time there i went off for hill. i love seeing sea from hill. i got into a place that belonged to a graveyard of ppl who were among Buddhism. it was huge. i got up into the hill with that kid. he was enjoying my company.

the more climbed the more adventurous i became. then at the top of that hill i took a place to sit & enjoy views.

all on a sudden i saw 2 ppl coming with 2 rifles with them. i got scared. they came to me & asked about my identification. i said & they said they are here for hunting deers. i asked about being their company. they accepted me & said it could get ugly if we meet with an elephant. i was careless. walk with them with that 19 yrs old kid. as we were approaching, for near about 20 min later i saw another man. he was angry with being there & said that there is an elephant near. i got scared. but still walked with them. then i saw an elephant playing with dusts as it was water & it was swimming. it was another hill near where we were. near about 500 feet away. i guess it though. i tried to catch it by my mobile camera. but it was outta resolution. after some time me & that kid started to return after saying good by to them.

as we were walking happily, someone from behind shouted as he was running that the elephant is on it's way for us. i was running for my life for the first time. :)

i came where we first started our journey with those hunters, climbed down the hill & made myself to see the bay i was waiting for. the the beach was empty of ppl. i was lone there. loved that place with hills behind me. i stayed there for 1 night & 2 days then return to cox's bazar. nothing much happened there & returned home...

what an adventure!

the most risky I did was when I was 14 or 15. I went with some friends and stayed in a place occupied by communist rebels. i was just curious to see them. I was so carried away seeing the young rebels.... the women were so good in martial arts and firing. I was so stupid I did not secure my belongings. An old man went near me holding my ID. He asked me.."are you a military dependent?" For a while life stood still for me and my friends. I saw my friends pale face. I said yes. We were ushered home that very minute. My friends were all angry with me for spoiling the adventure.

kaptid, sorry about the playing part, first i didn't wanted to share this story.



this is the pic that i took first on 21-01-06. distant view is myanmar & the river is dividing two countries. it's awesome!


& this is the one i took when i went there again on 15-04-08. i saw that cave in first visit but i forgot to take a pic.


i wish i could take a pic of that elephant. lol...

wow!

well kaptid, i think u did the right thing. human is far dangerous than animal for another human. have a good day...

hahahaha, so much for adventures :P

if Chris, Shad, Euckey, or NaLLa invited me, yes i'll accept!
lol :P

that's good, Deasy :)

No. I do not like taking favours. When you take favours, people always expect something in return.

But...in second thought...I might accpet if they told me clearly what they want in return and if that suits me. Like a business deal?

True. Often something is expected for the favours...
probably a relationship?
What if an extremely wonderful guy, e.g. a US or Swiss national who bared all his good info for you (verifiable and true), expressed his intention to marry you, hoping to meet you first..... you like the guy and ur also interested in knowing him, but he is far and this chance is the only means for you to meet.....will you go?

No....I will still not go.

I will never fall for a guy who will not be able to visit me. If he has a good character ( according to immigration control...Lolzz) and money...he should have no problem to visit me. If he does not have these two along with some good education ...he is nto good enough for me ( hey! thats a good criteria to choose a guy...Lollzzz)

I will want him to make the first visit....he is my prince charming...my knight in shining armour...he should be the one to take all the trouble, fly in white plane ( in absence of a horse!) and visit me!! Hey....a girl should have her pride and vanity!! :)

I am absolutely impressed :)

oh what more can I say...... :O

hahahahaha
Thanks a lot gf! I am pleased to impress you! :P

luv u my girlfriend :)

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